Judge

Judging is one of the hardest thing I often work at.  Everyone has there own weakness that needs to be tuned up.  Judging happens to be on top of my list.  It is a hard habit to break, but I know if I work on it everyday. The easier it does become to be less judgemental.  It's bad to say but sometimes I do not realize that I judged a thing, or someone.  It just happens until I step back and realize what I thought.  Thoughts, are the main point I'm targeting.  It's so happens when you think of things you judge an object if it's good or bad, if it's ugly or beautiful, if your smart or dumb, .. Sometimes I think I might mistaken judge as a choice.  Choice is what path you decide for whatever reason, But there's always judgment involved in it.  What if I decide Tomorrow I had a choice to either smoke or have a green smoothie.  When approaching this I then will look at it in this perspective, Well seeing how much people are dieing from smoking and how craspy their voice gets.  It's not healthy.  I think I will choose a green smoothie which will benefit my body with soothing energy.  Okay I am not making sense here.  The end with this section

Judging your partner, thinking of them as being wrong, is but a trick of the ego: “They are immature” or “selfish”, or "not reliable" or "unfaithful" or "afraid of my love", "...".
If you judge your partner from outside the perspective of the Oneness, separate from yourself, how can you really love them? Use your partner as a mirror to see yourself more intimately and deeply and start to feel that you are your partner and your partner is you, beyond any judgment. Begin to recognize and to accept yourself through them.  Alot of time when you judge your partners of "Why aren't you this", "I wish they were like this"  lalala when you think this way, Remember this is the time to cratique yourself.  What, How can I be a better person!  What is that I need to work on?  Why does that something push my button?  Write them down or meditate on it and see why it hurts you.  Are you being a tad dramatic?  After thinking about these things and working at it to fix yourself and how your viewing it.  If it's still a bother.  Approach your partner and let him how you been feeling.  Maybe it's misunderstanding.When you do approach them DON"T say You you you.... that won't solve an issue it's just adds on and become bigger.  Cheers!  

Bobby, Thanks for your hard work, I do miss you alot at home and wish we could spend more time with you .  I appreciate your effort of pushing yourself to become a better person!  You've come a long ways.  I'm so grateful to have a husband that wants and will work on to become better.  I know it was hard for you those first year.  Hey, I've seen so much growth in you and blessing are always coming our way when we are doing our part!  I love you Babe!  Just thinking of you right now and looking at our engagement pict that is posted on the our bedroom wall.  I got to say you do have a pretty smile!  Your wonderful to me!  I love you hun! Peace.  

Hazel says that your taking her to get rice and beans tomorrow :)  She is a cutie.  I had Alyvia watch you on a video I'd recorded of you three.  She just giggles with a big smile when she heard your voice.  Your the best dad for our kids.  They love you!  Thanks for putting in the effort even when your busy to spend some quality time with our girls.  

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