A stronger Relationship

I am so lucky to have Bobby in my life!  I think about how amazing of a husband he is and of course a father.    Today I express gratitude to my Heavenly Father for bringing Bobby into my life.  Before I had met him, I jawed down on a piece of paper of what I wanted my future husband to be like.  On that paper, I purposely wrote I don't want him to be perfect but I want him to have some sort of weakness that I may be able to help him out and he would be able to help me out.  Of course, Heavenly Father gives him a weakness that I am totally against.  Haha can you imagine that.  I don't regret it going through it,  It had helped me to be more patient and understanding.  I was able to come to an understanding why Bobby went through that and why he did it.  

 My husband could of easily given up on me, and chose a different path that was much easier for him.  That's what I admire about him.  He wanted to be a better person!   He loved me for who I was and wanted what I had. Bobby has always treated me with respect, kindness.  He being able to trust me enough to guide him these past 3 years to see success brought within meant a lot.  Bobby and I work as a team.  First, it was recognizing one another boundaries, learning each others fears, excitement, sucessess, coming to an understanding that blaming won't solve any issue.  Wanting a better relationship requires love for one another.  Seeing that person as an Individual.  Not judging their flaws. 

Bobby and I are always trying to find ways to become a better person.  The cool thing about us is we are able to look within our self and find false and bring it up to see how we can tweak it and work at it become better.  Our goal is to be the best parents for our wonderful two kids and a amazing spouse for each other.  Learning to love those around us without contention.  Of course, it does take practice.  You need to really want to work at to see any result.  It's amazing when your struggled with a certain something and your down at the bottom of the mountain looking up.  What's going through your head is NEGATIVITY, anything to get you not to climb that mountain because it requires work and of course the first few steps are the hardest.  If you truly are wanting to be better you have to take the step and take whatever struggles that come your way.  IF you always remember the result that comes to it you'll just keep going higher sooner than you think you will be in the middle looking down saying " that wasn't to bad!"  Then when your to the top you'll Say " WOW that was an amazing experiment I learned alot That was a piece cake! I can't believe i  thought those things"    once your to the top your back to the bottom starting all over again to something new.  LIFE is wonderful.  My Bobby is wonderful.  

  Bobby text me this cute message: 

"I want to say thank you so much sweetie.  Thank you for your desire to strengthen our relationship.  All the efforts you do to bring a smile on my face really mean a lot to me.  The best things is when I do smile, or whenever you do something for me, it does so much more for me than what you see.  Every smile carries behind it the knowledge that i came from you, and makes me feel not just special, but truly honored to have the gift from such an amazing person.  some that I should be giving gifts to because of how special to me you are.  Everything that comes from you I hold close because you are the closest to my heart.  I love you with the kind of love that never dies.  The kind of love that I hold as my most prized possession.  You are the best person I have ever met, and the fact that I am with you and that you actually want to be with me is a concept too wonderful and I am happier than ever that it is what's happening.  I love you with all my heart.  I have more respect and honor for you than anything else  I have ever known".- Bobby

  This made my day.  It's always nice to get a wonderful kind note that My Bobby appreciates and thinking of me.  Thanks Honey!

I love you